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  • Writer's pictureJamie Lou

5 Books to Empower Our Preteen Daughters


During a time when the self-esteem and mental health of preteen girls is threatened by all of the messages they receive from social media, the news, and beauty ads, empowering books can provide a retreat from the noise. Here are our How She Shines picks for 5 Books to Empower our Preteen Daughters:




This New York Times Bestseller aims to help young girls develop confidence and empower them to tackle challenges. Katty Kay and Claire Shipman provide practical advice and strategies to build self-esteem, recognize and combat negative thought patterns, and develop a growth mindset. Get the book here.


















This coming-of-age novel by Mahogany L. Browne tells the story of a young woman navigating the ups and downs of growing up in a working-class neighborhood. The protagonist faces challenges such as poverty, discrimination, and familial conflicts, but learns to rise above them and find her own path in life. Get the book here.


















Evaleen Whelton wrote an empowering book for Neurodivergent kids and teens which provides them with tools to advocate for themselves and build self-confidence. It covers topics such as understanding neurodiversity, building positive self-image, and effectively communicating with others. Get the book here.












Written by New York Times Best-Selling Author, Traci Chee, A Thousand Steps into Night is a novel about a young girl who is navigating the complexities of growing up in a world that often doesn't understand her. Through her journey, she learns to embrace her differences and find the courage to stand up for herself. Get the book here.

















This is a retelling of a classic fairytale that puts a feminist spin on the story. The protagonist is an ogress who is often misunderstood, but ultimately shows her compassion and kindness to those in need. This book by Kelly Barnhill empowers young readers to see the value in themselves and others, regardless of appearances. Get the book here.













To all the moms of preteen girls striving to ensure we are raising them to be strong, confident, empowered women, we see you. Keep going.


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